I’m perhaps not at all astonished that you pointed out which you had been cheated on in a past relationship.
I be aware with this frequently. Often whenever an individual is cheated on, they have been interested in cheating, in an effort to reclaim their lost self-esteem, even in the event their spouse that is new is.
It will always be a misguided solution to regain self-esteem, but, nevertheless, We hear of the taking place often.
Personally, I believe you really need to at the least keep carefully the lines of communication available along with your spouse, and acknowledge you are ready to do whatever it takes to regain 90 % of their trust once again.
I actually do believe it is their family members that features their ear and that’s causing damage. Nevertheless, perhaps he’s maybe not completely controlled by their household and is the sort that will think for himself.
Therefore, once again, tell him that you would like to try and salvage your marriage and to reconnect.